Saturday was an overloaded day; Ben had worked the night before and was working again that night, but I needed him to drive me into town because of the cookie fiasco. I'd made those peanut butter thumb-drop cookies, right? with the mini hershy's kiss pressed into them? Well, they turned out really weird. half of them were over-cooked, half of them were undercooked. SO frustrating. So I finally caved in and bought some cookies from Save-on. Some chocolate chip ones from the bakery. They were for this funeral that was being held at our church. There was a young man who'd been murdered. He'd been in the drug scene. Anyways, they weren't members of the church, but the family didn't have enough money for all of their funeral expenses, so we held it there. I played piano. They apologized that they couldn't pay me. I didn't even know pianists were paid at funerals! I wouldn't have felt good taking money from them anyways. They were so sad. When the family came in, the Mom just started sobbing. She cried through the whole thing, and whenever a friend passed her she would hug them and just cry. The chapel was filled and everybody was crying, and the things that were said were very sweet and touching. I'd never been to so sad a funeral. The funerals for my grandparents were different, because they were old and had lived really good lives, and were suffering in the end, and it was almost just a mercy to see them go. But it's sad when somebody who's so loved and has so much potential dies so young.
Anyways, the food was provided by the Relief Society, and the tables were groaning with food. Piles of tuna and egg salad sandwiches and ham and cheese sandwiches, and somebody had brought bannock, and platters piled with fresh fruit, and the desert table had trays and trays of cookies and squares and cake. It was hardly touched, too. At the end, the family wrapped it all up and took it all with them, which surprised us a little, just because they were a small family and we hoped they could eat it all before it went bad. But we were glad they had taken it, because before we'd been worried about what we'd do with all the extra food. Anyways, after everyone left, the few of us members who'd been there cleared everything away and cleaned up. It took a while.
Meanwhile, there'd been a surprise birthday party planned for Abby by her friend Brenda, so on the way home Gail stopped at Save-on and I rushed in to buy her a small gift. I love buying gifts--it's so fun! I chose a bronze lip gloss (that I knew would look good on her) and some moss-green eyeshadow with glints of gold in it. When we got there, though, Abby was there with her Mom, and everybody had left,because the funeral took too long and Brenda'd had to go pick up her daughter. But there was cake, so me and Gail and Abby and her Mom sat around and ate cake (tuxedo cake) and then Abby opened her presents from Gail and I. She was very appreciative, and put on the gloss right then. I was right, it looked super good on her. I felt proud of myself.
After that Gail and I had to rush back in to town and pick up some milk, then rush back home. We were home for half an hour and already it was time to go to book club. Owen hadn't slept well all day, because of all the excitement and going from place to place--he'd just had quick naps in the car, and I had just gotten him down, too. So that wasn't good.
But anyhow, it was our first meeting, and it was so fun! It was at Claudette's house, and she'd made chocolate muffins, and had printed out stuff from the internet with different genres and possible book choices. We sat around and discussed what kinds of books we'd like to read. I was the only one with any suggestions, so we decided on A Town Like Alice for our first book. I've already finished it. It's really good--so romantic! Nothing like a satisfying romance. It also has so much peronal progress and growth in it, and that's always nice to read about too. So I'm really happy about the book club, and glad I had the momentary guts to get things moving.
Ben's days off, yay! i love his days off.
Last night I made cookies for a funeral I'm going to tomorrow. They were little peanutbutter thumb-size balls, with a mini chocolate kiss pressed into them. Well, I kind of undercooked them, and they tasted almost like just plain cookie dough, so Ben and I've been eating them. Now there's not much left and I'm going to have to make more; plus I feel yucky.
On the finding a place front, Ben talked to a guy on the phone, who said that we could stay at this house rent-free as long as Ben was working on the renovations there. It needs to be painted and the flooring needs to be done. Painting = not fun, unless we get to pick the colours. Then it's awesome. I'm not afraid of colours. But the house or 'cabin' it was advertised as, is in a kind of grungy area of town, so I'm a bit leery. We're going by to look at it tomorrow. Because there is real danger in Williams Lake, especially if you're white. Almost every time I read the paper I'm reading about stabbings and attacks on white people from angry Natives. There's a lot of hate here.
Speaking of the colours bit, I'll never forget that time when I moved into the room downstairs in the basement when I was 14, and Mom and Dad said I could paint it any colour I wanted. So I wanted to paint it this smoky grey-blue. But Jordan was on a mission then and I happened to talk to him on the phone, and he advised me to paint it tan or beige. He had a very strong opinion about it. He said beige went with everything and then I could put whatever other colours in my room I wanted. I trusted his opinion so much that that's what I did end up doing--I painted it a light tan. So boring!! And so not me. I put a strip of the blue along the top, and the end result was very bland and kind of masculine.
the creepy, watchful frog series:


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